Your problem isn't about not having a partner - male or female to taste - it's about society, politics and specifically capitalism. It's sbout the failure of governments to assure the wellbeing of the people they're supposed to be looking after. It's about government and society failing to make sure that every citizen has a guaranteed income sufficient for their needs before they even consider gettig a job, call it a Universal Basic Income or a Social Wage, things are going to continue to get worse unless or until it happens. For the record, I also advocate removal of profit from the provision of basic necessities, the placing of legally enforceable limits on the amount of profit that can be made on any transaction and the imposition of a ceiling on personal income.

Then we could make our own decisions about how to live our lives!