A lot of these responses fall into two categories:

  1. You’re a coward for not suing.
  2. I’m a victim of sexual abuse and you’re a man so you don’t know jack about suffering and you probably deserve it because all men are abusers.

So let me just say, I suffer from depression and know how enervating it can be. I should have fought to keep my job, or sued for constructive dismissal, but I just didn’t feel up to it, so I resigned. The key issue for me was not the whys and wherefores, but the reaction you had, which I understand. Be careful out there.

Snapper-up of unconsidered trifles, walker of paths less travelled by. Advocate-in-Ordinary to His Satanic Majesty.

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